Rethinking Tisha B’Av

There is a holiday in the month of Av (July/August) called Tisha B’Av. It’s traditionally a holiday of mourning because pretty much everything bad that’s ever happened to us as a people happened on that day. I’m actually all for a collective day of mourning.

I think there can be a lot of power in that, but I really find that my thoughts about the central element of Tisha B’Av, the fall of the Temple, are very different than everyone else’s. This is one of the few places that I really haven’t heard anyone talking about where I am on this.

Here’s the thing.

On Tisha B’Av we’re supposed to be mourning the exile of the Shekhinah. So the story goes, when the Temple was destroyed, which was the “home” of the Shekhinah, she was exiled out into the world. But that just doesn’t make sense to me. I see her as being freed to infuse the whole world now.

It may have sucked at first for the Jews to be exiled from Israel, but I don’t see every last one of us making aliyah and should we? Yes, the destruction of the Temple and Diaspora have been challenging, but that’s made us who we are as a people today.

It’s just like the “exile” from Eden. I don’t see it as an exile. It was time for Adam and Chava to grow up and move out on their own.

Life changes. We go through different phases of life, and some can be very painful and we have to mourn what is lost as we embrace what is new. Growing up can suck. Moving out on your own is more than a little challenging, but the other option is to remain a child your entire life.

I’ve been thinking more about how we’ve grown as a people and a spiritual path since the fall of the temple. While we may have nostalgia for the “good old days,” how many of us really would go back if we could?

Do we really want to see a return to the Temple cult, with its privileged priestly class and animal sacrifice?


Let’s honor the past, but embrace the future. Remember. Release. Transform.

If we’re going to mourn past destruction and devastation, then let’s use that to ensure that others don’t continually experience the same thing.

Let’s reclaim the Shekhinah and see her as infusing the entire world with her presence and free her from the myth of exile.

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